Take A Chillaxative Man!

It's funny how one event can completely ruin your otherwise perfect day! This guy... lets call him... 'I' ok! And this other guy... lets call him.....'J' Just cause I don't wanna give out TOO MUCH!

So i'm friends with 'J' (who happens to be Bi) and we were talking and all of a sudden, 'I' turns to 'J' and started talking about how a guy cannot do it with another guy, trying to make 'J' feel uncomfortable. And I can 'I' this look but didn't say anything. So 'I' kept going and it came to the point where I could tell that 'J' was uncomfortable and feeling hurt. So I said...

"Hey look, I don't think yo can talk to 'J' that way it's not nice at all!"

and he looked at me and said...

"But ..."

And I said...

"No, it's all good you don't have to talk!" and turned away from 'I' to face'J' and when 'I' wasn't looking I asked 'J' if he was ok.. he said yeah, kinda..... So in less confusing words... No! 

The thing is, 'J' use to belong to a big group of "friends" and before he came out he thought he could trust them completely and that they wouldn't judge, so he decided to tell them.. well.. they weren't as understanding as 'J' thought and he basically lost all his friends... Except for a girl called 'K' I'm close friends with 'K' and that's how I met 'J' ya see! So we became friends and so I am hurt when 'J' gets hurt. And it's hard to watch people discriminate against him and hurt him!

I get it! People have their opinions and that is perfectly fine, we all grow up differently and have different beliefs and all which is fine by me. What's not fine is when you use those beliefs to hurt, discriminate and hurt people. When you express them in a way that will humiliate somebody or make them feel uncomfortable is plain WRONG! You are fully entitled to your opinion, not trying to take that away for ya, but don't use it against people! It's not a human thing to do.... it's monstrous and hurtful! TAKE A CHILLAXATIVE MAN!!!! And just take a second before you say things that are hurtful. 

Thanks

xx ♥ xx

Danii